family holidays
The Loved and Dreaded Family Holiday
Mike JerryFamily holidays come with many rewards, but they can also bring lots of stress. Most people enjoy them enough to continue the tradition of hooking up with family members you might not have seen in a while. Children see and play with their cousins. Brothers and sisters connect with each other and their parents. With so many people gathered at once, there is bound to be some stress involved. Travel plans, corralling the kids and seeing people you may not like. Despite that, these trips are revered, as family is the most important part of our lives.
Every year one thing we all look forward to is the family holiday; whether it is Thanksgiving or Christmas, 4th of July or Hanukah, getting the family together for a holiday is always what makes it enjoyable and memorable.
What to Expect on a Family Holiday
As we grow up, the times we remember and cherish most are the family holidays we had and the things that took place at those gatherings. Attending a family holiday is relaxing and enjoyable, because you are in a gathering of people who love one another and want to be in each other's company - at least most of the time.
There are many times when one gets a bit stressed by taking a family holiday such as:
* Coming home for a family holiday with a boyfriend/girlfriend your family doesn't know about.
* Hosting a big family holiday where all of your family members are expected out, including your in-laws.
* A family holiday that requires expensive preparation and travel.
* A family holiday at your in-laws.
While there are probably many more reasons why a family holiday can end up slightly stressful, the truth is that in the end you overcome all this stress by being in the company of your family, who you thought would cause the stress in the first place.
Complicated? Not at all - there are times when we feel nervous in the presence of some family members, but if you are calling them family, then remember there is no issue that cannot be worked out between family.
Family is the most precious gift we have, which will stand by you no matter what even if some will criticize, scream (moms usually), discipline (dads), and pamper (grandparents) - they all mean well deep down inside and will always be there for you.
Family holidays may be hectic almost always, but they are the times we had, have, and will always have to remember and cherish. It is at these gatherings that we learn to share and love one another, to be patient and obedient, and do what our heart tells us, as the family will always be there behind you to support and love you.
Enjoy family gathering and holidays even if they are not always great - connecting with family is what makes us who we are and what we will be, now and always.
What to Expect on a Family Holiday
As we grow up, the times we remember and cherish most are the family holidays we had and the things that took place at those gatherings. Attending a family holiday is relaxing and enjoyable, because you are in a gathering of people who love one another and want to be in each other's company - at least most of the time.
There are many times when one gets a bit stressed by taking a family holiday such as:
* Coming home for a family holiday with a boyfriend/girlfriend your family doesn't know about.
* Hosting a big family holiday where all of your family members are expected out, including your in-laws.
* A family holiday that requires expensive preparation and travel.
* A family holiday at your in-laws.
While there are probably many more reasons why a family holiday can end up slightly stressful, the truth is that in the end you overcome all this stress by being in the company of your family, who you thought would cause the stress in the first place.
Complicated? Not at all - there are times when we feel nervous in the presence of some family members, but if you are calling them family, then remember there is no issue that cannot be worked out between family.
Family is the most precious gift we have, which will stand by you no matter what even if some will criticize, scream (moms usually), discipline (dads), and pamper (grandparents) - they all mean well deep down inside and will always be there for you.
Family holidays may be hectic almost always, but they are the times we had, have, and will always have to remember and cherish. It is at these gatherings that we learn to share and love one another, to be patient and obedient, and do what our heart tells us, as the family will always be there behind you to support and love you.
Enjoy family gathering and holidays even if they are not always great - connecting with family is what makes us who we are and what we will be, now and always.
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